It just dawned on me that after years of “dating” I have learned from my experiences that I haven’t always been a mature girlfriend/partner
I say that because I had this mentality
“I’m not about to teach a man how to treat me, he should already know”
Which is only partially true, because of the FACT that we are spiritual beings.
There are deep traumas in our invisible minds (conscious) that go everywhere we go.
It is my duty to make you aware of that so you aren’t tormenting me because you haven’t healed.
So if I tell a guy how I like to be treated and he gets angry or says some disrespectful shit
First off EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT & y’all dudes need to comprehend that when y’all get into new friendships with women.
Y’all really need to understand the type of trauma your woman has been through and what her emotional intelligence level is so y’all can help her BREAK THE CYCLE of BATTERED WOMEN SYNDROME!!!
Help concoct a solution and not contribute to her problems
I’m (WE) not going to lose respect for myself (OURSELVES) to keep you (y’all) around.
& the woman I am now…
HONEYY I NEED LOOOOVVVEEE, COURTSHIP, PASSION, FUN, FREEDOM, LAUGHTER, JOY, PRIVACY, INTIMACY, SUPPORT, GROWTH, Patience….
DONT HIT ME UP TALKING ABOUT SEX.
There are hotlines you can call & hook up apps you can find sex on IM COOL 👍🏾
I’m taking my time…this is my life
Many blessings to all of the men & women in the world celebrating their love stories 💜
& much love to those who’ve made it this far and took their time to read my thoughts. I am truly grateful for your attention and curiosity 🤎