In a nutshell “male leadership and domination” the controller of all resources.
So of course as a male you will be bias and strongly believe in this ideology and want to enforce it.
However, I have a few things to say about this style of leadership when it is given to the wrong male.
1. Let’s talk mindset. There are plenty of men who firmly believe women are lost without their leadership and need them in order to think. (Don’t argue because I know a few who have admitted this)
Well, allow me to tell you why this mindset is not only toxic, but an inappropriate approach when trying to lead women.
First and foremost, who told you that & why is it so easy for you to believe that? Hmmmm…that right there shows that you’re not even leading yourself.
Did you know real leaders are also great followers, not docile and misinformed followers, but leaders have goals and they will not fold their vision; however they are willing to be flexible in their strategy on how to get there. What if the voice of a woman is what you need? You wouldn’t know because you don’t see women as leaders so now your ship is sinking. Be open-minded.
Anyways, I want to know where are you leading these women that you call “lost” especially since the mindset you’ve adopted isn’t your own nor is it conducive to your goals; unless your goal comes from shallowness and insecurity. I really am curious to know why you think you can lead someone and you don’t even have your own thoughts about where you should take them and why.
What makes you think a woman is incapable of having a vision and leading her own life or even helping you lead your life? Thats ignorant, are you not the child of a woman who lead her life and made a choice to carry you for 9 months when she could’ve aborted you or took that plan b? Aww ok.
& believe me there will always be resistance when a woman’s vision for her life is being manipulated by someone who is not supporting it or deterring her away from what feels right to her. Real leaders are HIGHLY AWARE OF THIS CONCEPT CALLED ALIGNMENT
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2. Let’s talk history. All over this planet women have been treated as either the most hated Queens or as property of their husbands. Just in case all of the Patriarchs forgot that part.
When you subjugate a person to your rules and make them your co-dependent; shouldn’t you have the means to provide for their every need without complaints? That is your property, you are responsible for maintaining it. You’re a man and a leader right? You know the way and you know what these lost women need right? Okay, great.
2. Let’s talk finances. There are plenty of wealthy men that bait women with money OR use their wealth as a way to intimidate and demean them. Then there are those that can’t bait with money so they sit on the sidelines nagging about how much of a gold digger a woman is, as if you not gold diggin for her pxxxy & mouth. A READ, but see honest leaders don’t deflect, place blame, or shy away from accountability. So, tell me again how you’re fit to lead a lost woman if you are lost in the lies you tell yourself? Awe okay leader.
The wealthy men can’t compensate emotionally and mentally so they floss their material things and successes while, penny pinching Todds’ and James’ sit around with no money and unhappy playing the victim of life
They resent the access rich men have to women and hate the women who prefer those wealthy men because she is not interested. So he feels invalidated.
I am really trying to figure out how do y’all expect to be leaders and yall can’t even lead y’all selves to emotional maturity without degrading the same thing you’re obsessed with…..oop
3. Let’s talk intimidation. Most of the men parading around about how a woman needs their leadership are actually slightly intimidated because she has empowered herself and the very thing you feel she needs didn’t come from you. Most men slow women down when they try to lead them. Sir, you are a supporting role. You are not the leading character in a woman’s life. Boy BYE!
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